Devoir de Philosophie

I did not know if the baby was making me sick or if your grandfather was.

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I did not know if the baby was making me sick or if your grandfather was. When I said goodbye to him, before he left for the airport, I lifted his suitcase and it felt heavy. hat was how I knew he was leaving me. wondered if I should stop him. If I should wrestle him to the ground and force him to love me. I wanted to hold his houlders down and shout into his face. followed him there. watched him all morning. I did not know how to talk to him. I watched him write in his book. I watched him ask people hat time it was, although each person just pointed at the big yellow clock on the wall. t was so strange to see him from a distance. So small. I cared for him in the world as I could not care for him in the partment. I wanted to protect him from all of the terrible things that no one deserves. I got very close to him. Just behind him. I watched him write, It's a shame that we have to live, but it's a tragedy that we get to live only one life. I stepped back. I could not be that close. Not even then. From behind a column I watched him write more, and ask for the time, and rub his rough hands against his knees. Yes and No. I watched him get in the line to buy tickets. wondered, When am I going to stop him from leaving? didn't know how to ask him or tell him or beg him. When he got to the front of the line I went up to him. I touched his shoulder. I can see, I said. What a stupid thing to say. My eyes are crummy, but I can see. What are you doing here? he wrote with his hands. I felt suddenly shy. I was not used to shy. I was used to shame. Shyness is when you turn your head away from something you want. Shame is when you turn your head away from something you do not want. I know you are leaving, I said. You have to go home, he wrote. You should be in bed. OK, I said. I did not know how to say what I needed to say. Let me take you home. No. I do not want to go home. He wrote, You're being crazy. You're going to catch a cold. I already have a cold. You are going to catch a colder. I could not believe he was making a joke. And I could not believe I laughed. he laughter sent my thoughts to our kitchen table, where we would laugh and laugh. That table was where we were lose to each other. It was instead of our bed. Everything in our apartment got confused. We would eat on the coffee able in the living room instead of at the dining room table. We wanted to be near the window. We filled the body of the randfather clock with his empty daybooks, as if they were time itself. We put his filled daybooks in the bathtub of the econd bathroom, because we never used it. I sleepwalk when I sleep at all. Once I turned on the shower. Some of the ooks floated, and some stayed where they were. When I awoke the next morning I saw what I had done. The water was ray with all of his days. am not being crazy, I told him. ou have to go home. got tired, I told him. Not worn out, but worn through. Like one of those wives who wakes up one morning and says I an't bake any more bread. ou never baked bread, he wrote, and we were still joking. hen it's like I woke up and baked bread, I said, and we were joking even then. I wondered will there come a time when e won't be joking? And what would that look like? And how would that feel? hen I was a girl, my life was music that was always getting louder. Everything moved me. A dog following a stranger. hat made me feel so much. A calendar that showed the wrong month. I could have cried over it. I did. Where the smoke rom a chimney ended. How an overturned bottle rested at the edge of a table. spent my life learning to feel less. very day I felt less. s that growing old? Or is it something worse? ou cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness. e hid his face in the covers of his daybook, as if the covers were his hands. He cried. For whom was he crying? or Anna? or his parents? or me? For himself? I pulled the book from him. It was wet with tears running down the pages, as if the book itself were crying. He hid his face n his hands. Let me see you cry, I told him. do not want to hurt you, he said by shaking his head left to right. t hurts me when you do not want to hurt me, I told him. Let me see you cry. e lowered his hands. On one cheek it said YES backward. On one cheek it said NO backward. He was still looking down. ow the tears did not run down his cheeks, but fell from his eyes to the ground. Let me see you cry, I said. I did not feel hat he owed it to me. And I did not feel that I owed it to him. We owed it to each other, which is something different. e raised his head and looked at me. I am not angry with you, I told him. ou must be. am the one who broke the rule. ut I am the one who made the rule you couldn't live with. y thoughts are wandering, Oskar. They are going to Dresden, to my mother's pearls, damp with the sweat of her neck. y thoughts are going up the sleeve of my father's overcoat. His arm was so thick and strong. I was sure it would protect e for as long as I lived. And it did. Even after I lost him. The memory of his arm wraps around me as his arm used to. ach day has been chained to the previous one. But the weeks have had wings. Anyone who believes that a second is aster than a decade did not live my life. hy are you leaving me? e wrote, I do not know how to live. do not know either, but I am trying. do not know how to try. here were things I wanted to tell him. But I knew they would hurt him. So I buried them, and let them hurt me. put my hand on him. Touching him was always so important to me. It was something I lived for. I never could explain hy. Little, nothing touches. My fingers against his shoulder. The outsides of our thighs touching as we squeezed together n the bus. I couldn't explain it, but I needed it. Sometimes I imagined stitching all of our little touches together. How any hundreds of thousands of fingers brushing against each other does it take to make love? Why does anyone ever ake love? y thoughts are going to my childhood, Oskar. To when I was a girl. I am sitting here thinking about fistfuls of pebbles, nd the first time I noticed hairs under my arms. y thoughts are around my mother's neck. Her pearls. hen I first liked the smell of perfume, and how Anna and I would lie in the darkness of our bedroom, in the warmth of ur bed. told her one night what I had seen behind the shed behind our house. She made me promise never to speak a word bout it. I promised her. an I watch you kiss? an you watch us kiss? ou could tell me where you are going to kiss, and I could hide and watch. he laughed, which was how she said yes. e woke up in the middle of the night. I do not know who woke up first. Or if we woke up at the same time. hat does it feel like? I asked her. hat does what feel like? o kiss. he laughed. t feels wet, she said. laughed. t feels wet and warm and very strange at first. laughed. ike this, she said, and she grabbed the sides of my face and pulled me into her. had never felt so in love in my life, and I have not felt so in love since. e were innocent. ow could anything be more innocent than the two of us kissing in that bed? ow could anything less deserve to be destroyed? told him, I will try harder if you will stay. K, he wrote. ust please do not leave me. K. We never have to mention this. OK. I am thinking about shoes, for some reason. How many pairs I have worn in my life. And how many times my feet have slipped into and out of them. And how I put them at the foot of the bed, pointing away from the bed. My thoughts are going down a chimney and burning. Footsteps above. Frying onions. Clinking crystal. We were not rich, but there was nothing we wanted. From my bedroom window I watched the world. And I was safe from the world. I watched my father fall apart. The nearer the war came, the farther he went. Was that the only way he knew to protect us? He spent hours in his shed every night. Sometimes he would sleep in there. On the floor. e wanted to save the world. That's what he was like. But he wouldn't put our family in danger. That's what he was like. e must have weighed my life against a life he might have been able to save. Or ten. Or one hundred. He must have decided that my life weighed more than one hundred lives. His hair turned gray that winter. I thought it was snow. He promised us that everything would be OK. I was a child, but I knew that everything would not be OK. That did not make my father a liar. It made him my father. It was the morning of the bombing that I decided to write back to the forced laborer. I do not know why I waited for so long, or what made me want to write to him then. He had asked me to include a photograph of myself. I did not have any photographs of myself that I liked. I understand, now, the tragedy of my childhood. It wasn't the bombing. It was that I never once liked a photograph of myself. I couldn't. I decided I would go to a photographer the next day and have a picture taken. That night I tried on all of my outfits in front of the mirror. I felt like an ugly movie star. I asked my mother to teach me about makeup. She didn't ask why. She showed me how to rouge my cheeks. And how to paint my eyes. She had never touched my face so much. There had never been an excuse to. My forehead. My chin. My temples. My neck. Why was she crying? I left the unfinished letter on my desk. The paper helped our house burn. I should have sent it off with an ugly photograph. I should have sent off everything. The airport was filled with people coming and going. But it was only your grandfather and me. I took his daybook and searched its pages. I pointed at, How frustrating, how pathetic, how sad. He searched through the book and pointed at, The way you just handed me that knife. I pointed at, If I'd been someone else in a different world I'd've done something different. He pointed at, Sometimes one simply wants to disappear. I pointed at, There's nothing wrong with not understanding yourself. He pointed at, How sad. I pointed at, And I wouldn't say no to something sweet. He pointed at, Cried and cried and cried. I pointed at, Don't cry. He pointed at, Broken and confused. I pointed at, So sad. He pointed at, Broken and confused. I pointed at, Something. He pointed at, Nothing. I pointed at, Something. Nobody pointed at, I love you. There was no way around it. We could not climb over it, or walk until we found its edge. I regret that it takes a life to learn how to live, Oskar. Because if I were able to live my life again, I would do things differently. I would change my life. I would kiss my piano teacher, even if he laughed at me. I would jump with Mary on the bed, even if I made a fool of myself. I would send out ugly photographs, thousands of them. What are we going to do? he wrote. It's up to you, I said. He wrote, I want to go home. What is home to you? Home is the place with the most rules.

« For himself? I pulled thebook fromhim.Itwas wetwith tears running downthepages, asifthe book itselfwere crying.

Hehid hisface in his hands.

Letme see you cry,Itold him. I do not want tohurt you, hesaid byshaking hishead lefttoright. It hurts mewhen youdonot want tohurt me,Itold him.

Letme see you cry. He lowered hishands.

Onone cheek itsaid YESbackward.

Onone cheek itsaid NObackward.

Hewas stilllooking down. Now thetears didnot run down hischeeks, butfellfrom hiseyes tothe ground.

Letme see you cry,Isaid.

Idid not feel that heowed itto me.

And Idid not feel that Iowed itto him.

Weowed itto each other, whichissomething different. He raised hishead andlooked atme. I am not angry withyou,Itold him. You must be. I am the one who broke therule. But Iam the one who made therule youcouldn't livewith. My thoughts arewandering, Oskar.Theyaregoing toDresden, tomy mother's pearls,dampwiththesweat ofher neck. My thoughts aregoing upthe sleeve ofmy father's overcoat.

Hisarm wassothick andstrong.

Iwas sure itwould protect me foraslong asIlived.

Anditdid.

Even after Ilost him.

Thememory ofhis arm wraps around meashis arm used to. Each dayhasbeen chained tothe previous one.Buttheweeks havehadwings.

Anyone whobelieves thatasecond is faster thanadecade didnot live mylife. Why areyou leaving me? He wrote, Ido not know howtolive. I do not know either, butIam trying. I do not know howtotry. There werethings Iwanted totell him.

ButIknew theywould hurthim.

SoIburied them,andletthem hurtme. I put myhand onhim.

Touching himwas always soimportant tome.

Itwas something Ilived for.Inever couldexplain why.

Little, nothing touches.

Myfingers against hisshoulder.

Theoutsides ofour thighs touching aswe squeezed together on the bus.

Icouldn't explainit,but Ineeded it.Sometimes Iimagined stitchingallofour little touches together.

How many hundreds ofthousands offingers brushing againsteachother doesittake tomake love?Whydoes anyone ever make love? My thoughts aregoing tomy childhood, Oskar.Towhen Iwas agirl.

Iam sitting herethinking aboutfistfuls ofpebbles, and thefirst time Inoticed hairsunder myarms. My thoughts arearound mymother's neck.Herpearls. When Ifirst liked thesmell ofperfume, andhow Anna andIwould lieinthe darkness ofour bedroom, inthe warmth of our bed. I told herone night whatIhad seen behind theshed behind ourhouse.

Shemade mepromise nevertospeak aword about it.Ipromised her. Can Iwatch youkiss? Can youwatch uskiss? You could tellme where youaregoing tokiss, andIcould hideandwatch. She laughed, whichwashow shesaid yes. We woke upinthe middle ofthe night.

Ido not know whowoke upfirst.

Orifwe woke upatthe same time. What doesitfeel like? Iasked her. What doeswhat feellike? To kiss. She laughed. It feels wet,shesaid. I laughed. It feels wetandwarm andvery strange atfirst. I laughed. Like this, shesaid, andshegrabbed thesides ofmy face andpulled meinto her. I had never feltsoinlove inmy life, and Ihave notfeltsoinlove since. We were innocent. How could anything bemore innocent thanthetwo ofus kissing inthat bed? How could anything lessdeserve tobe destroyed? I told him, Iwill tryharder ifyou willstay. OK, hewrote. Just please donot leave me. OK.. »

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